Practice Incentives for Violin Students

As a private studio teacher, you may have struggled with your personal philosophy behind practice incentives. We want to be careful to encourage intrinsic motivation in a student rather than squashing it with extrinsic motivators. Students should practice because it makes them better, and they’ll be able to play more music when they’re better at their instrument.

That’s all well and good for the self-motivated pre-teen student, who has already learned that hard work will result in a new skill. However, if you are a Suzuki teacher like I am, you probably have more than a couple students under the age of 6 who have not had a chance to learn this. When the Suzuki Method was first gaining international recognition in the 1960’s, it was at a time when there was generally a parent who was home every day to help the child practice, usually the mom. It was also a time before video games, smart phones, and tablets were commonly found in households across the nation. Now, it’s more common to find families that have both parents in the workforce, and we have daily competition from screens for our students’ attention. For these families with students who have not yet developed their intrinsic motivation to practice, we need a way to encourage students to practice that doesn’t rest solely on a parent’s ability to have the mental bandwidth to encourage, beg, and sometimes argue with their child to practice each day. That’s why, in my opinion, a little external motivation doesn’t hurt the student.

Introducing: Practice incentives! AKA prizes, rewards, bribes, etc…

If you’re a new teacher, or just a teacher new to giving prizes for practicing, I have two tips from my previous experience.

  1. Keep it Simple: I’ve had elaborate challenges that seemed like a great idea in my head, but were actually really hard to explain once I was in a lesson. This is not helpful in motivating a student, especially a little one who is just barely grasping why we need to practice in the first place.
  2. Keep it Consistent: If you introduce a practice incentive of some sort, everyone needs to be held to the same standard. I made the mistake of thinking that as a private lessons teacher, my students wouldn’t have the opportunity to compare their progress with one another. This is simply not the case when you are serving a local community – some of them are bound to have friends within the studio, know each other from school, or if your studio is like mine, you’ll probably have a lot of siblings who are both taking lessons.

And now without further ado, here are some ideas for practice incentives you can implement into your own studio!

Practice/Listening Challenges

I’ve done practice challenges periodically ever since branching out and doing lessons out of my own studio. I’ve tried a variety of things in the past, and I found that having two challenges a school year is plenty.

Practice Minute Challenge

This challenge is really basic. Students record their practice minutes and win prizes as they meet designated goals. There are lots of different personal twists you can add to these challenges, but what I do, is designate the month of October each year as my “Practice Challenge Month”. I have four tiers of prizes that students can win depending on how much they practice. I calculate this based on how much time I recommend each student practices each week. So for example, for a Book 1 student, I recommend that they practice for at least 30 minutes 5 days a week. They win their first prize at 150 minutes, the next at 300, the third at 450, and the final prize at 600 minutes. If the student practices the amount I recommend, then each week, they go home with a prize. If they don’t, they’ll only win two or three prizes that month.

Lets face it, we all have some students who will only earn one prize in the month, and it’s our job to love them just the same as our other students. This challenge helps them get a prize, too!

I get my prizes either at the dollar store, or you can order little arcade prizes from Amazon. I’ve also gotten prizes at a real arcade to pass on to my students – I love going to Dave and Busters, but I don’t need any of the prizes you get for the amount of tickets I win.

Quick tip: I used to lay out my prizes on a bookshelf in my studio so that they could see what they were practicing for. That was far too distracting during the lesson, so now all of my prizes are in a box that they only get to see if they win a prize.

I add an extra incentive by awarding the student who practiced the most out of their group a $5 gift card to Meijer.

Listening Challenge

I’ll admit that I haven’t found a perfect challenge for this yet. As a Suzuki teacher, my job is to encourage families to listen to the music they are going to learn. The student simply will not learn effectively (meaning they will learn to play with mistakes, or take several months to learn each piece) without daily listening, especially in Book 1. And yet, a lot of my families just don’t do it, or only do it once a week on the way to lessons.

For two years in a row, I have done a “November/December Listening Challenge”. My idea is that during the holidays, even if you can’t get to the violin every day, at least you can do your listening. The first year I did this, I encouraged students to listen for 2/3 of the days remaining in the calendar year (which is still lower than what I tell families they need to do), and if everyone did at least that, they would all win a pizza party. My students did not win a pizza party that year.

The following year, I promised everyone a cool notebook to start out the new year if the studio could do 2/3 of their listening in November and December. Remember when I said earlier that it was important to be consistent? I broke that rule for this challenge. My studio did not meet the 2/3 goal and I found myself needing to reward the students who had, for the second year in a row, diligently done their listening every day to try to bring up the studio’s average. Students who did their listening every day did receive a special, music themed notebook that I got on Amazon to celebrate their listening achievement.

The studio-wide challenges have been a swing and a miss for me, so next year, I’ll be making my listening challenge a personal challenge for each student. I am very interested in ideas from Suzuki teachers for encouraging listening that do not include dismissing students from my studio!

Practice Bingo

This was a super fun challenge for me to do in 2023, and my plan is to alternate this each year with my practice minutes challenge each October. Each “Bingo” results in a prize out of my prize box.

Milestone Awards

These rewards are a little easier to keep up throughout the year if you keep the materials on hand. These can be given for graduating pieces in a method book, completing a method book, attending a certain number of lessons, or completing a first recital.

  • Colorful Ribbons. Margaret Hawley-Lowry, who teaches in Zeeland, suggests awarding students who pass a challenge piece in their method book with a colorful ribbon to put on their violin case. At the end of the year, students can see how colorful their cases have become!
  • Peg Gremlins. My students at Jenison Public schools have come to lessons with finger monsters on their tuning pegs. This one deserves a picture:
  • Certificates. Never underestimate the power of a professional looking certificate that students can hang on their fridge at home!
  • Candy. This one is pretty classic, but be sure to have options for students with allergies. When I was a student at Blue Lake, my orchestra teacher in the summer before 7th grade would give candy to one student at each rehearsal as a “Posture Award”.
  • Cupcake Graduation. I teach my students to hold their bows with their thumb outside of the frog. After they’ve learned all of the Twinkle Variations, Lightly Row, Song of the Wind, and Go Tell Aunt Rhody, they perform all four of them consecutively for me at a lesson. After they perform the folk songs from Book 1, my students graduate from their practice bow hold to moving their thumb inside the frog, and they also earn a cupcake! I adapted this idea from my piano teacher’s (Susan Crosser) Cupcake Graduation, celebrating the first few pieces in the piano Book 1.
  • New Strings. This is not something I provide for students, but I encourage the parents of my students to reward their student with a new set of strings when they graduate Book 1.
  • 100 Lesson Club. I write notes for each of my students so I can remember what they’re working on, and sometime a few years ago I decided that while I’m writing the notes, I might as well write a number each lesson. Students who have attending 100 lessons receive a certificate and are part of my “100 Lesson Club”. Members of my 100 Lesson Club are recognized each year in the spring recital program.
  • Magic Rosin. My friend and quartet member, Jamie Listh, who teaches at Trinity North, found these amazing rosin cakes to reward students with.

Behavior-Based Prizes

My Pre-Twinkle students are often still learning what behavior is appropriate for lessons. After seeing several families using a point-system to reward good behavior with their littles, I decided to make up my own system.

Pre-Twinkle students are able to earn up to 3 Cookie Points per lesson. One for participating in the lesson (no stalling), one for following my directions without complaining, and one for following my house rules (no yelling, no hitting, etc.). After students earn a total of 15 points, they win 3 cookies. I have a couple of girl scouts in my studio, so I buy a ton of girl scout cookies and freeze them to give away as rewards. I also like to bake so when those are out, I make chocolate chip cookies, or my mom and I love decorating seasonal sugar cookies. Remember to have a gluten free and dairy free option if necessary.

What types of prizes do you give to your students? I would love to hear your ideas in the comments!

Violin Studio Back to School Notes

We started our Fall Semester on September 3rd, and this school year is already off to a busy start! Each student got to start off the semester with a sweet treat, made by my mother (and I helped)!

We have some exciting things planned for this month, including a trip on the 28th to the Grand Rapids Symphony where students will be able to participate in a “Play-In” in the lobby before the concert. This concert is especially fitting for my students to see as it’s titled “For the Love of Violin”!

Each of my students is also starting out the Fall Semester with one month of reviewing their old songs. Once everyone is done with their review songs, then each student gets to pick a prize out of my prize box! A key component of the Suzuki method is reviewing a unified repertoire and playing with others, and we are able to do that in group lessons and with lesson overlaps!

I’m looking forward to all of the opportunities this semester has in store for us!

Ada Village Farmers Market Performance Recap

We had a blast at the Ada Village Farmers Market playing group songs and duets for shoppers and farmers! I was joined by Dr. Sarah Abbott Boerema and her students for a fun morning of fiddle duets.

I was so thrilled for my students to have an opportunity to play music outside of the Suzuki repertoire and to do so in such a casual setting. Before now, my students had only had recitals to perform at. My goal for the next school year is to increase the number of fun performance opportunities for my students so they aren’t all high-pressure situations like a recital.

Dr. B and I played duets for about an hour, and then we had our students play 6 group songs: Twinkle Variation A, Carnival in Rio and Bow River Fiddling from Magic Carpet Violin, Cabbages and Swallowtail Jig from Wee Violin, and Old MacDonald.

We are so thankful to the Ada Village Farmers Market for hosting us and can’t wait to go back next year!

2024 Spring Recital Recap

Last month, we enjoyed lovely performances from nearly every one of my students. I am so humbled by the growth my studio has shown in the past three years. At my first recital, I had 13 kids perform. I had nearly 30 perform this time!

Since we have grown so much, we had to find a new venue for our recital this year. Thank you very much to St. John’s United Church of Christ for hosting us!

We had solos, duets, a trio, and even a quartet! I am so proud of the hard work everyone put into their performances. We were accompanied once again by the skilled Noah Seim and I even tried my hand at accompanying as well! Grand Rapids area teachers should consider hiring Noah for their recitals – he is fantastic at accompanying young students.

At every recital, my students start with the first variation of Twinkle. Everyone gets to play as a group regardless of how young or old they are. One of my students’ parents got a great picture of us playing twinkle, but there were so many of us that not everyone is pictured!

This year I started including Pre-Twinklers in performances. At the start of the show, we sang the Rest Position Song and “played” Pop Goes the Weasel. Later in the program, all of my Pre-Twinklers played an open string duet with me from the books Wee Violin and Magic Carpet Violin.

Towards the end of the program, my more advanced students played some ensemble music.

And now with the recital behind us, we are well into the summer. I’m enjoying slower days and sunny weather, while also looking forward to getting back into the swing of things next year!

2022 In Review

What a year it’s been! I’m so thankful for all of the opportunities I’ve had this past year and it makes me feel very fortunate to look back on what I’ve been able to do. When we are caught up in the grind and just getting by day to day, it can be hard to remember how much we have accomplished. I encourage everyone to do a yearly reflection and give yourself some credit for your hard work too!

Below are just 5 (of many!!) highlights from this past year.

  1. I performed at 26 wedding ceremonies.

I originally started the year with a limit of 24 weddings. After the whirlwind that was 2021, I felt that I needed to limit the amount of weddings I was doing for my own sanity and for the quality of my performances. I ended up adding on 2 more, but am proud of myself for sticking so close to the original number I gave myself! A lot of planning goes into each wedding, so limiting them ensures that I am consistently providing my best work. 

  1. I started the year with 15 students and ended it with 27.

This is especially crazy, because my goal was 20! I am finally at a point where I don’t need to rely on gigs to supplement my teaching income. The constant plugging myself and posting on wedding sites appear to be in my rearview mirror- and hopefully I can keep it that way!

  1. I recorded an album!

Albeit small (only about 30 minutes of music), my string quartet worked very hard and hired a sound engineer (Chris Avison at McBride Studio) to record music for my parents’ 30th wedding anniversary. They have exclusive access to the full album, but you can listen to clips on my About Page.

  1. I Completed Book 2 Training.

It seems so long ago that it wasn’t even part of this year, but in February of this year I completed my Book 2 training with Jenna Potts. It was a very thorough class and I learned so much about teaching and Dr. Suzuki’s philosophy. I’m really looking forward to continuing my education in the Suzuki Program!

  1. I held my first studio recital!

Words cannot express just how much pride I felt when I watched my students, aged 5-adult perform songs that they had worked so hard to prepare. My heart was bursting to see even my most nervous students perform so well. Each student put in so much work and the reward was a beautiful performance.

I’m looking forward to using these experiences to help me grow in 2023!

5 Boho-Style Songs for Your Boho-Chic Wedding

The Boho-Chic style is known for its earthy tones, natural textures, eclectic combinations, and a Beauty-in-the-Natural-Chaos vibe. If I could use three words to describe this style, I’d take them right from the Beatles: “Let it Be”. With a style so easily detectable to the eye, you wouldn’t think it’d be so tough to nail down what the specific “sound” this style would have, but it’s actually pretty broad! When I sat down and really thought about it and started reading about this style and how it could relate to music, I found that I was drawn to songs with more of a walking-tempo, a simple melody, and an acoustic-feel rather than electronic or pop. The 5 songs I have listed below are what I think would be a lovely addition to your Boho-Chic wedding, all of which are on my repertoire list!

  1. Love Someone – Lukas Graham

Perfect for some prelude music before the ceremony!

  1. Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran

This would be a great song for parents, grandparents, and the wedding party to Process to.

  1. Speechless – Dan + Say

I have done this for Bridal Processions and I think it’s just the perfect song for it!

  1. Better Together – Jack Johnson

This classic would be the perfect song to recess to.

  1. Lover – Taylor Swift

A laid-back song great for a cocktail hour.

Happy Planning!

Summer 2022 Recital

This past Sunday was a big day for my studio!! 🎻🌈

I had my first ever student recital. We started the event off with a group rendition of Twinkle Variation A, then 13 of my students gave beautiful performances. All of them played so well, and it’s so impressive to think that about half of them couldn’t even play the violin this time last year!

My grandma played the piano for 13 of the 14 who performed (one played solo). She also was great! I am so thankful to her for sharing her skill with us and helping make the day special. ❤️ She committed lots of time to rehearsing, as each of my students got to rehearse with her in a lesson, at a dress rehearsal, and at my June group lesson.

Thank you also to Davin with Sound Check at Lowell United Methodist Church for allowing us to use this space. It was the perfect size for us!! 🥰

Buddy & Bean Flower Farm put together a beautiful arrangement to honor my grandma, and I really recommend her work🌻🌺 !

I can’t forget my mom, who made cookies and fruit kebabs for everyone!! 😋😍

And lastly thank you to my students and their families!!! I am so proud of everyone who performed and I am so happy with how far you all have come. Happy Summer!! ☀️🌈

5 Celtic-Style Songs for Weddings

Traditional Celtic music is a broad genre that evolved out of the folk traditions of Ireland, Scotland, and Wales. While there is a lot of diversity in the genre, it’s often easily recognizable by its care-free lilt and whimsy. If you’re looking for a romantic, yet natural and whimsical atmosphere for your wedding, setting the mood with music is an absolute must! Here are my top picks for Celtic-Style Music for weddings!

August 19 by April Verch

April Verch is a Canadian Fiddler who wrote this song for her friends’ wedding. This song was literally written to be played at weddings!

Si Bheag, Si Mor

Michael Kelly explains the meaning of the title (and then some) translates to “So big, So little”. This song is particularly special to me because I walked down the aisle to it at my own wedding!

The Ashgrove

This lovely song is also the tune to a Christian hymn. Played by yours truly!

Give Me Your Hand

Being a little more lively and rustic-sounding, this song provides a great beat for you to either walk down the aisle to or use as a recessional song. 

Danny Boy

This is perhaps one of the most iconic Irish Ballads. This gorgeous melody would fit anywhere in your ceremony as processional music, music for a unity ceremony, or even the recessional. 

Honorable Mentions:

Ashokan Farewell

Red Red Rose

A River Boat’s Gone – Also by living composer April Verch

Why Getting the Right Size Violin Matters

Did you know that violins come in multiple different sizes? It’s true! While most adults play on full size violins, there are 1/2, 1/4, 1/8, 1/10, and even 1/16 size violins for children. Whether your child is 3, 7, 14, or even if you’re an adult student yourself, getting the right size violin is crucial to learning the instrument. For children who need a fractional sized instrument, getting them the right size violin will allow them to handle the violin much better than they would with a violin that is too big.

Won’t my child grow into a full size violin?

While, yes, your child will very likely grow into a full size instrument, there are several reasons why this logic will end up hurting them in the long run. First, when I say “hurt”, I partly mean that quite literally and physically. Holding the violin is not natural – meaning no other time in life are you likely to hold up your left arm over to the side of you in the way you would to hold a violin. Even without an instrument to hold up, your arm is probably going to get tired after a few minutes of holding it up if you’ve never done this before! Violins seem like such little things, but they’re heavy when you hold one for extended periods of time. If your body hasn’t developed the necessary muscles and endurance to comfortably hold a violin for extended periods of time, we risk injuring the student by overusing the muscle. The smaller the violin, the lighter it is. If your child has the benefit of being able to start on a smaller size instrument, you will be doing them a favor as they will be able to develop their muscles slowly over time rather than rapidly putting stress on them.

Second, a smaller child is set up for failure if their instrument is too big to handle. We need to be able to move around freely on the fingerboard in order to play the instrument. There is a lot of work in the first year (and many times longer) with posture (holding the instrument correctly). The most common thing I see when a child has an instrument that is too big for them is that they’re not able to hold it properly. They need to have a straight left wrist in order to comfortably access every note on the fingerboard. If they’re struggling to reach the top of the neck of the instrument in the first place, they don’t have a chance of keeping that wrist straight. This will cause (on top of constant nagging from their teacher) them to play out of tune, making it extremely difficult for them to develop their ears. Playing in tune is a challenge when everything is set up right – it’s near impossible if the student also has other factors working against them.

All of this is sure to frustrate the student, and in my experience, they will be more frustrated than they will have fun. They will hurt, their teacher will be nagging them constantly about their posture, and they won’t be able to make a nice sound with their instrument. No child wants to fail. Having an instrument that is too big for your child will likely result in them losing interest.

Buying multiple instruments for my child as they grow sounds expensive.

I have great news! In a lot of areas, you can rent string instruments. When your child outgrows theirs, you turn in the violin for a bigger one. I recommend renting your first instrument to everyone, even if they’re an adult student who will be starting on a full size instrument to begin with. Here’s why: how many times have you or your kid been ALL about something, totally invested, can’t get enough… just to lose interest in a few months? I love the violin, but I’m not foolish enough to believe that it’s for everyone. It’s a rewarding, but very challenging, skill. To put it bluntly: the violin is too hard to enjoy if you just “kinda” like it. Renting an instrument is a smart option financially if you’re unsure of the commitment.

In Grand Rapids we’re lucky to have Meyer Music – your one stop shop for getting sized, renting, and helping with repairs for your instrument. If you go during normal business hours during the week, they’ll even change a broken string for you while you wait. All included in the rental fee! If recommend Meyer Music to all of my new students. If you’re not in the Grand Rapids area, Shar Music does online rentals. Even though they’re based out of Ann Arbor, they will ship you a rental instrument. They’ll help guide you through the process of measuring your child to see which size violin is right for them as well.

I would love to hear from you! Let me know what your thoughts are about this below!

3 Tips for Picking Your Wedding Ceremony Songs

Some of us have had out weddings planned since we were children. Others of us… not so much! When it comes to picking music for your wedding ceremony, it can seem like a daunting task. You’ll remember what you walked down the aisle to for years to come, so the selection is important! Here are three tips for choosing songs for your wedding.

1.) Know Your Musicians

Are you going to have live music for your ceremony, or will your DJ be playing something? Whoever is playing the music for your ceremony is important to consider. If you have a solo instrumentalist, or even a duet, there are just some songs that aren’t going to translate well. If you’re hoping to have your favorite electronic, hip hop, or metal song played for your ceremony, it’s not going to sound the same on solo violin or a violin and cello duet. This is because there are a lot of things going on in those kinds of songs, and we won’t have a drum set or a backing track to play with. There are some melodies that I can work with and make really beautiful, but it will be different. If you are having a hard time picturing your song being played on the ensemble you hired for your wedding, I suggest looking up covers of the songs online. This will help you get an idea of what to expect. If you can’t find a cover played by your instrumentation online, it’s likely because, unfortunately, it doesn’t work very well. I would consider having your DJ play those songs if you are attached to them – then it will be exactly how you pictured it!

2.) Consider the Timing for the Processional

The trickiest thing to plan is the processional. The timing is pretty key here and you’ll need to take that into consideration when choosing songs. Be thinking of things like, how big is your wedding party, if you have one? Do you want a separate song for when your party walks and when you walk? How long is the aisle at your venue? These will all play a part in the timing for your wedding. For this reason, it’s a good idea to pick a song that is easy for your musicians to stop if they need to. My suggestion is to find a song with a repeated or repetitive melody in the chorus. A couple of great examples of this are Perfect by Ed Sheeran and A Thousand Years by Christina Perri. This makes it easy for your musicians to stop early if they need to or repeat a section if they need more time.

Some couples have different songs for the party and the bride, and some couples have one song for everyone to walk down to. That part is up to you! Just keep in mind that if you have live music, your musicians will likely need to reset after each song (meaning they will need to take their hands off their instruments to turn the page in their music!). If you have a different song for the mothers, one for the bridal party, one for the ring bearer, another for the flower girl, and finally one more song for the bride, it’s probably going to sound a little choppy.

If you are struggling to find a song, ask your musician what they reccomend! They will be able to provide you with a list of ideas.

3.) The Recessional Song(s) Should be Special

The songs you choose for the processional will likely not be played all the way through. However, the song for your recessional will be. If you have a song that you absolutely love, I highly suggest choosing that for the recessional rather than the processional! You’ll likely be too overwhelmed to hear the processional music anyway!

What do you think of these tips? I’d love to hear what songs you’ve chosen for your ceremony below!